7 Rules of Becoming a Classy Woman

Now, when you think of a classy woman, what is the first picture that comes to your mind?

For me, I can see a well-polished young lady with her hair done, make-up perfect, nails groomed and graciously dressed in form fitting clothing (which would probably consists of a pencil skirt and red high-heels). The point is when people think of a classy woman the first thing that comes to mind is how elegant they look.

Well, if that is what being classy is all about, why don't we all do it? Because apparently there is nothing else to it: WRONG.

As I researched this topic, I found more interesting pieces on how a woman should act instead of how a woman should look. You can be well-polished and have a horrible qualities about yourself. Being a classy woman should be a 50/50 aspect: 50% quality and 50% looks. So, in this article today, I am going to share seven rules to becoming a more classy, elegant woman.

Rule #1: Manners

A classy woman should always be well-mannered: this excludes cursing, being obnoxiously loud, talking about other woman in a rude way (especially behind their backs), burping in public, and talking about money and how much class you have (or think you may have). A classy woman should always know when to say "please", "thank you", "sorry", and "your welcome". She should greet people, even if they do not return the favor, and be generous. The key to having manners is to avoid being rude and inconsiderate to others, as well as yourself.

Rule #2: Social Etiquette

A classy woman should always know how to carry themselves in public from the way they walk to good posture. There are a few points here that a woman should practice everyday: not slouching, talking while there is food in your mouth, eating with your mouth open, and sitting with your legs propped like a man.

Treat others the way you want to be treated. Giving others advanced notice before being late or canceling plans, speaking up for those who cannot do it themselves, checking up on your parents and friends, not playing on your phone during a conversation and looking people straight in the eye during conversation.

Good hygiene is a must! We have always heard that we should make a good first impression and the first thing people see is how you carry yourself. Wear clothing that flatters your body but nothing too revealing (no breast ladies). Avoid exposed undergarments. Key notes: don't wipe your nose on your sleeves or burping out loud in public, or digging up your nose. Get your look together BEFORE leaving the house. Don't put on make-up in public (unless touching up in a bathroom), comb your hair in public, or do anything that makes you look like you weren't put together (or put any effort into keeping your composure) before leaving the house.

Rule #3: Be Modest

A classy woman always knows when to be modest. This means that she is down-to-earth and humble. There is not a need to be a diva or boastful. She knows how to accept compliments with gratitude, treats everyone with respect and do not need to display power over others. She does not need to say how classy she is if it truly shows. She does not need to boast about how much money she has. And she especially do not need to dress to impress. There is a difference between dressing to impress and dressing to make a good first impression.

You know how to dress your body to enhance your beauty, not to show off. Do not show too much skin or cleavage. She knows not to dress loudly or follow in the latest trends to make a statement.

Rule #4: Authenticity

A classy woman knows how to be herself. She knows how to be free to herself and lives proudly. She does not need to be deceptive or hide behind a facade. She knows how to enjoy herself and embraces life with a positive perspective. She knows how to show her emotions by laughing joyfully, crying when she's sad and reaching out to others when she needs to.

Rule #5: Be Knowledgeable

A classy woman embraces knowledge. She states whether she knows about a topic and asks for more information. This shows maturity and shows that she is open minded. She is politically, religiously and culturally aware. Having the basic knowledge about a topic can save much embarrassment and frustration. Be well read. There has never been any harm in picking up a book.

Rule #6: Personal Development

A classy woman should be open to constructive change. She knows how to face life, rather than burying her head, and shows that her opinions count in the world. Learn new skills and make new goals. Being classy means changing unhealthy habits and living a better lifestyle, if this means going to the gym, get to it! It's not classy to think you know everything. Remember that the learning process is never over.

Rule #7: Confidence

Confidence is what sets a classy woman apart from a showy woman. Confidence does not mean looking for everyone's approval, being manipulative or putting others down to feel better about one's self. A classy woman is aware of her worth no matter the opinion's of others. She is independent. She knows how to embrace her femininity and show it. She can think and stand up for herself but knows when she needs to back down as well.

Becoming a classy woman may not be easy but there is always room for improvement in our lives. I am not going to be the first woman to raise my hand when the question arises as to who is truly classy because I am a work in progress. You should not fret. Change takes time and determination. The more you practice, the more it become second nature.

What are your thoughts on becoming a classy woman? What are your thoughts on the definition of a classy woman?